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Monday, October 06, 2008

Be warned, bad words follow.

OK, here goes another swing at the old bat. Not that Old Bat, no my muther is done, gone and dead to me. I mean my verbal assault bat.
Friendships, like any relationship, are hard. They require work, maintenance and sometimes overhauling. Several months ago two of my very good friends had a falling out. I remained friends to both because I graduated 8th grade and can act like an adult.
Now, one of the friends whom I briefly shared a food blog with because neither of us really posted to it on a regular basis has her panties in a bunch because I did not TELL her that I had started my own food blog. Babe, I made the same announcement to you as I did to everyone else I know- I put a link on the sidebar of my regular blog. I'm sorry that you couldn't take off your selfish glasses and read it like every-fucking-other-person-I-know. I'm sorry that you feel neglected that you didn't get a hand written, notarized statement telling you that I have my own opinion and wants and ideas regarding MY food blog. And oh yeah, IT'S A FUCKING BLOG! Not a novel, not a cooking book, not a 3x5 collection of index cards, IT'S A FUCKING BLOG!
I put work into my friendship with this person, real work. It was hard not to get upset at the fact that someone I cared for had hurt someone else I cared for. But work time's over. To coin her phrase, "All done".
My only regret in all of this is that I gave her a great dining room set FOR FREE. I wish I had that back.